How I Keep My Edge After 40: Style Lessons from Emily in Paris
The mistake most women make after 40 isn’t caring less about style—it’s assuming bold ideas no longer apply. Emily in Paris proves that style doesn’t have to soften with age. This post breaks down how to translate those ideas into real life using my signature high–low approach—mixing designer pieces with affordable or designer-inspired fashion. From mixing prints without looking chaotic to playing with exaggerated proportions in a flattering way, the goal isn’t to copy a character or chase trends—it’s to borrow what feels fresh and make it work for your body, your lifestyle, and the outfits you actually wear and feel fabulous in.
Mix Prints—Without Looking Chaotic
The easiest way to mix prints is to start with ones that already play well with others. Neutral prints—like polka dots, stripes, or snake—act more like solids than statements, which makes layering them feel intentional instead of busy. Keep the color palette tight, but exaggerate the difference in scale or size of the patterns so the look feels styled, not chaotic.
These are some mixed-print outfit ideas, with polka dots and snake, from my 2026 New Wardrobe Checklist edit.
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Trying to Keep My Edge Without Losing My Mind
No tan. No business in a bikini in January, but we are headed to Italy this summer with our boys and haute mama has to get it all in a carry on!
How to Play With Proportions
I’m exaggerating—and you should too. Steal Sylvie’s bold, ageless style strategy by playing with proportion while avoiding a 50/50 split. Keep the color story simple or monochromatic so the shape does the talking. Ground the look with timeless pieces, like a crisp white button-up, so it reads cool—not like you’re trying.
And yes… anyone else suddenly want a flip phone?
High-Low
Anyone can apply these style lessons in real life using my signature high–low mix of brands—designer pieces paired with affordable or designer-inspired fashion, styled to feel unmistakably you. High–low isn’t about copying outfits or chasing trends—it’s about landing on a look that feels like you. Like a striped shorts sets that works with flats for running errands or a big bag for the beach!
